
Want to clean up your Messages app or escape a group text that’s blowing up your phone? Here’s how to leave group chats on your iPhone or iPad. Whether you’re in a group iMessage or a mixed SMS group, this guide covers everything you need to know. We’ll also explain what to do if you’re unable to leave an iMessage group or if the “Leave this Conversation” option is greyed out. With a few quick steps, you can reduce distractions, regain your peace, and take control of your messaging experience.
Easy Steps to Leave an iMessage Group Chat on iPhone
Note: You can only leave a group imessage that consists of 3 or more people.
If you leave a Group conversation on iPhone will they know?
Yes, if you Leave An iMessage group Chat, then a specific group will get an alert with the name of the member who left the conversation.
Once you leave an iMessage group, you can’t add yourself back — you’ll disappear from the member list. If you want to rejoin, you’ll need to ask the group admin to add you again. So double-check that you’re leaving the right group before you hit that button!
Follow the steps to Leave Group Chats in iMessage
- Open the Messages app on your iPhone or iPad.
- Choose a specific Group from the list of message conversation threads in a group.

- On the iMessage conversation screen, tap on the (i) Info button under the Group name at the top center.
- Tap on Leave this conversation by scrolling down the screen.
Hint:- If Leave This Conversation is Grayed out or Missing. Please check that Your Group has at least three Members; if not, then add someone and Leave Yourself. - Lastly, tap Done at the top-right corner to return to the message app.

- That’s it.
You have now successfully left the iMessage group.
Fix Unable to leave imessage group
If you’re unable to leave an iMessage group and see the “Leave this Conversation” option greyed out, it’s usually because not everyone in the chat is using iMessage. If even one person is on SMS (like an Android phone or someone with iMessage turned off), Apple won’t let you leave that conversation.
What can you do?
- Mute the conversation: Open the chat, tap the group icons at the top, then turn on Hide Alerts. You’ll stop getting notifications, so it’s almost like you left.
- Start a new group: If you want to chat exclusively with iPhone users, create a new iMessage group without including non-iMessage contacts.
- Ask the group admin (if it’s a managed thread) to remove you, though most standard iMessage groups don’t have this feature.
Hope that clears it up. It’s frustrating, but it’s a limitation of how Apple handles mixed SMS and iMessage chats.

